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Pen Love: Pagan Omega Fountain Pen.

I recently won an award and I wanted to do something nice with the prize money, something that I could cherish for a good few years and get joy out of every time I use it. I decided on a fountain pen, but not just any fountain pen, I got a handmade, wooden, beautiful work of art which is absolutely stunning and a joy to use. David, the owner of Pagan Pens was kind enough to take a couple of pictures of my pen being made so I could share them on this post.

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The first step is to select the wood. On the website there is a useful guide of woods based on the Ogham Calendar. The Ogham Alphabet is one of the earliest forms of written communication and was found largely within Ireland, but also in parts of Wales as well. Later medieval documents suggest that the letters of the alphabet were named after trees. The Ogham Calendar is based on a 13, 28 day cycles each represented by a tree. This lends itself quite nicely to having birth woods, in a similar fashion to the having a Zodiac star sign. My birth wood is Alder (18th March – 14th April), which is represented by the letter Ogham letter F (Old Irish: Fearn, although originally in Primiative Irish this symbol was a W for Wernā). Each wood has it’s own unique characteristics and properties. Alder is said to be the magical tree of Bran, the King or God of the Celts (who was said to be a paternal and maternal ancestor of King Arthur). Alder gives protection, courage and eases fear and doubt. It is also a pioneer tree, often being one of the first to claim wet,treeless ground and improves the soil to allow for other trees to grow there as well. As a result it is often see near water, which connects the tree to the element of water. However, it is also connected to air, with ancient legends suggesting the wood was used to make wind instruments. Furthermore, it’s bark once cut turns to a fiery orange, which gave rise to the belief there was a flame within the Alder, as a result the charcoal was used in forges to make Celtic weaponry. So I thought it was a pretty perfect and unique wood for me to choose!

IMAG2574Once I had selected my wood and placed my order it was David’s turn to select the actual piece of Alder. David picked a piece of spalted wood, which means the wood has gone through a colouration process caused by Fungi and can produce some beautiful interest on the wood. It is typically found on dead wood and is the stage before the wood begins to rot. The first process is to cut the wood to size and then to drill and glue the brass parts of the pen into place. IMAG2572

IMAG2575Next the pen wood is  mounted onto a lathe and using a heavy gouge chisel the wood is turned and begins to become rounded. IMAG2578Once the basic shape of the pen is reached a skew chisel is used to produce finer shavings and give the wood a smoother finish. IMAG2579The final stage of the pen making process is to sand the pen down to make it smooth and then apply three different waxes, each wax is applied four times given a total of twelve coats of wax.IMAG2582.jpgAnd here is the finished:IMAG2583The pen is absolutely breathtakingly beautiful and it feels soft and smooth in my hand. It’s more light weight than I expected (but then again I do have a very heavy wooden locket which I was comparing it to, so I expected it to be a lot heavier than it is). It’s a good weight and the pen itself is very comfortable to write with. The nib itself is smooth and had a good flow from the start, it doesn’t skip and it really nice to write with. IMAG2584As you can see at the end of the pen, there is a knot visible. This is common within wood and was not visible at first when David cut the wood. It has sanded smooth and there is no visible ridge to the pen. David did contact me and say that if i was not happy with the knot he would make a new pen for me as some customers prefer to have the pen knot free. For me I was completely in love with the pen and thought the markings were truly beautiful. I did not see the knot as a flaw but a wonderful unique feature to an already beautiful pen.The craftsmanship and beauty of this pen far exceeds anything I was expecting and I am truly blown away from the quality of this pen. Considering I paid £32 (plus £5 shipping), I really got one hell of a pen for my money. I am completely in love with it and it fits in so wonderfully with my letter writing case. The only downside is that I do not have enough letters to write. I am hoping my pen pals will speed up a little bit and give me some letters over the coming days.

Waiting time was very reasonable, I ordered the pen at 2:38am on the 5th August. It was posted on the 24th August and I received it the following day. The pen was presented in a lovely purple velvet pouch and came with a standard size ink cartridge and an ink converter. There is also the possibility to get other nibs and you can use this pen for all your calligraphy needs.

So if you are interested in a unique gift at a great price I recommend checking out Pagan Pens, and if you are not a fountain pen lover there are other pen options available. To see more photos of David’s beautiful pens check out his Facebook page as well.

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Philofaxy Penpals

Me and Steve have revived Philofaxy Penpals. You can find more information on today’s Philofaxy post by clicking here.


Using a Van der Spek a5 Writing Case

*I did mean to post photos with this although time and other commitments have prevented me from doing so currently*

So it’s been a couple of months since I received my VdS A5 Writing Case, so I’d thought I’d give a update about it and how I have been using it.

The leather is still in really good condition, despite a few very close calls when a cat decided to stand on them. It still looks absolutely brand new.

What I really like about this case is how small and lightweight it is compared to a regularly a5 binder. It feels very compact.

The left side can hold a surprising amount, however the more you put it in the more it does bulk out the top begins to lift away from the rest of the binder as there is no clasp to hold it in place. When I went to transport this to University as someone wanted to see it I did end up taking about half the contents of it out. Other than that trip it has never left the house, because it is a letter writing kit and I don’t usually write letters away from home.

The case itself is very nice to write on. I use the VdS pad as a pad and I write on it. Being left handed I thought that the left hand side would get in the way but when I sit on the sofa I just prop it up slightly against the side of the sofa and write as normal. When I write on my lap I also do not find it an issue to write with the left side, as you might expect it to be with your left arm having to go over it to get to the right side to write. Although I am sure VdS would consider reversing it for left handers if you wanted to. The left side cannot be folded back on itself, as their is something under the leather preventing that, although again, I am sure VdS could change that if you requested. It is strong and sturdy that it just lies flap and holds it shape, it’s not floppy and I just write as if writing a birthday card. It doesn’t get in the way at all.

I love the pad with it’s matching strip of leather. I had planned to use it after I had finished my current pad of paper but I think it’s too pretty and works too well as a hard surface to write on that I think I will keep it for the time being.

If you have any questions about the writing pad please let me know and I’ll be happy to answer them if I can.


Stationery Idea: Washi Tape Stationery

I have a very small collection of Washi tape that I use to use to decorate my planner with. However this year, with my paper being good quality I don’t really need Washi tape to reinforce the holes. So I am left with Washi tape that is not being used. The tape itself is pretty so it’s a shame to waste it. A great option is to use it to decorate some plain paper and envelopes. This is a great way to have pretty stationery without sending a lot on stationery sets.
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Letter Writing Etiquette: How to write your first letter

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Quite a while ago now I wrote about my old school hobby of letter writing. As modern technology takes over our lives it can be quite challenging to pick up an old school hobby, particularly when modern life doesn’t necessary engage with some skills needed for letter writing. Today I am going to share my advice for perhaps the most difficult challenge associated with letter writing. Writing the first letter.

So if you read my last post and were quite interested you’ve probably found some new people and you’ve exchanged a couple of instant messages and got a few addresses and now you’ve sat down and you have no idea what to do, you’ve filled with excitement to stop but you have writer’s blog. Well follow my step by step guide and you should be well on your way to writing a successful first letter.

Step:

  1. Start by writing your first name and surname and your address neatly. This could be either in the top left or right corner, traditionally it’s done on the right but it really doesn’t matter. The important thing is to make sure it is neat. The reason for doing this is so you can get a reply. You may have exchanged details in the past but they get lost etc. So just write it clearly on your first letter, then you know that your new penpal has your address.
  2. Date your letter. This is optional, I know some people do not do it because they don’t when they wrote the letter in case it took them a very long time to post it. It’s very rare for me to write a letter in one go, I often come back over a day or a week to do it. So I like to date each day I write something to the letter. I think it’s nice and it can also be helpful when a letter gets lost in the post (yes it happens). Once it took over a month for a letter to arrive to me, so it was great to see the date. It also helps when you say in your letter, next tuesday I am…then your penpal can follow up if they know the event has now past.
  3. Optional: You can put the time you wrote the letter or maybe the weather which I think is a nice touch, but again it’s optional.
  4. Start with your greeting, if you don’t want to be too old fashioned and use Dear, you can start with Hi, Hello, etc. Whatever you prefer.
  5. Main body:

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Now it’s time to start your letter. I also make sure I ask how my penpal is at the start of a letter, it think it’s polite and it is also one of the most important questions I want my penpal to answer. I would like to know how they have been in between letters. Now for the more interesting part, actually starting the letter. You have to remember that you are as much of a stranger to your penpal as your penpal is to you. So start with an introductory paragraph. Say your name, if you are an Elizabeth but no one except your Grandmother calls you that give your nickname. Tell your penpal when your birthday is, ask them for theirs. Then you can exchange birthday cards. You can state where you were born too…not anything too detailed just the city. If you no longer live in that city, say why you currently live in that city.

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Once you’ve got through that you need to start to begin to build a relationship with your penpal. If you want to get replies you need to make sure your letters are interesting. If you followed my advice on my last email you may have placed an ad for a penpal or you replied to one your penpal wrote. It’s good to check that advert and expand on those a little more. For the purpose of this post I am going to use my penpal Dennis for an example of things to write. I read this advert and firstly emailed Dennis before getting his address. His advert was:

I’m a man and I was born April 23, 1987.
My name is Dennis; I live in Freiburg, which is a city situated in the far southwest of Germany.
Some of my hobbies are reading, travelling, sports, photography and music. I have many interests so there should be always plenty of stuff to write about.
I would like to know about your country, its culture, about different things of life and so on. Snail Mail is such an interesting way to meet new people and to share our thoughts that it would be really great to find somebody preferably from Canada, France, Australia/New Zealand and Brazil. But people from other countries are of course welcome too; also from Germany itself.
The languages I know are German (native speaker) English (fluently) and French (basics).
I have to say, please only contact me if you are interested in a long lasting friendship, otherwise it would not make any sense in my opinion.
I am looking forward to your messages,
Dennis

It’s a nice advert, but it’s not very detailed. For instance, from this advert I don’t know what sports Dennis plays or his favourite music or books. There should be some things you have in common on the list.

So firstly you could maybe pick a topic that you would like to find out about Dennis, for me I am quite interested in German culture, so I wanted to know a little bit about where Dennis lived. So I could explain a little bit about where I live, my city, some of the things that are interesting to see in my city, maybe one or two fun facts, or something it is famous for. Places you like to eat etc. In return you could pose some questions to Dennis asking what his city/town/village is like, if they have any strange traditions or so on. I explained a little bit about my own city of Birmingham and that we have a regional dish called a Balti. In return, Dennis told me about a regional dish of his Schwarzwälder Kirschtorte, if your German is good you’ll be able to know that that is Black Forest Gateau. I think Dennis was quite shocked to know that I knew it well (and also that I hate cherries!). This in time can lead to some exciting things, currently we are exchanging histories of our cities with photographs.

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Move on to another topic and repeat the same process as in the above paragraph, remember to write a little of your opinion but also to exchange with your penpal and ask questions. Some topics might be:

  • Your job/education
  • Family
  • Pets
  • Your past week
  • Your hobbies
  • Your religion
  • Some quirky facts, you may be Vegetarian or you won a competition when you were younger. Anything.
  • If you like films, maybe you can write about the last film you watched and whether you would recommend it. Don’t give too much away about the plot line though.

You don’t have to write forever, I usually aim for 2 sides of a4 paper, or an equivalent (4 sides of a5 paper). You don’t want to spend ages writing tons of things and make the letter massive, that can be quite daunting to read. You also don’t want to make it so short that your penpal has nothing to work with when replying. So a healthy dose of questions (nothing too invasive) and an equal measure of sharing about yourself (again nothing too personal) is a great start.

Now there are some golden rules we should address, let’s go through some dos and don’ts.

Do

  • Write neatly. your penpal may not have english as a second language but even if they do it is important to write clearly. There nothing worse than having to spend ages trying to figure out what people are writing. I have had badly written letters in English and German, and they just aren’t fun to read or reply back to. It’s a sure fire way to not get a reply back.
  • Spell things correctly, again, same reason as the first. I know spelling can be difficult to some people so if you worry about it. Write your letter first on a computer, then write it out.
  • Keep it to a reason length. Not too short or too long. You need to write enough to engage but not too much that your penpal will find it intimidating to reply back to. If success, you will have a lifetime to find out about each other.
  • Be patient. Letters are slow. Once you’ve sent off your letter if could take a week to get there, depending where you are, a week for them to write the letter back (sometimes longer) and a week to get the letter sent to you. So that’s three weeks minimum. This is a slow method. So if you write 5 letters in your first week, if could be a while before you see letters come back to you. Just keep it simple. One or two penpals and build it up. It can be quite daunting when you begin but over time letters start to spread out. I usually get one a week to reply too. At the beginning it could be like 6 in a week – which is quite a lot and it takes time. Start small and build your friendships.
  • Maybe you are arty and like to draw things. Why not make your own stationary. Some pretty envelopes or some nice paper to write with. These can be great but please read my last point in the dont’s…
  • Write your envelopes in waterproof ink. Fountain pens are lovely to write with perhaps not the best option to write an envelope with, especially as they can get caught in the rain. So maybe stick to a Biro or something that won’t smudge.

Don’t

  • Don’t be too personal. Remember this is still a complete stranger. If you are sitting at a bus stop and engage causally to someone sitting next to you…would you divulge every little secret or everything bad that has ever happened to you? No you wouldn’t so don’t do it in your introductory letter.
  • Don’t moan. Yes your husband/boyfriend/family member may have pissed you off just before you started writing or you had a bad day. Constantly being down in the dumps or moaning makes for a letter that is not really fun to read, so it’s not going to be enjoyable to your penpal. Over time, once you’ve established a friendship you can add these things, but for now; be upbeat.
  • Don’t ask for stuff. By stuff I mean gifts. There are people and penpals out there who exchange small things, like note paper, or sticky notes, small items. Tea is a very popular one. These are great, but leave it a couple of letters before you exchange things and ask if it is ok to exchange small things like tea bags. For me, I don’t drink tea, so getting tea in the post makes me feel obliged to go out and get tea to send back to them – when I don’t drink it. So maybe you can find something that you would be interested in swapping, but wait until you have found that your penpal is a good match. The last thing you need is to spend money organising a gift swap that your penpal you do not know very well has no intention to replying too.
  • Don’t go crazy with design. When I first started, I had no idea of designing letters. I wrote on boring plain white paper, because I was just interested in writing letters. I have since received some very beautiful letters on great stationary. They look fantastic. I have also received some ones that are not so nice. I have had some ones that have random stickers on them that don’t match a theme of the letter paper and they have bad handwriting, the envelopes are decorated too. To put it bluntly it looks like a five year old did them. I don’t mean to be rude but they can be quite of an eye sore. I am not much of  a decorator but I will show some nice ways to decorate some letters in upcoming posts.

Do you penpal? Or you new and need some advice? Perhaps you are a pro letter writer and want to share some feedback or great introductory letters you had or


A Dying Art: Traditional Letter Writing

A few months ago I was looking for a couple of new language exchange buddies when on My Language Exchange. Whilst looking I stumbled across a couple of people who wanted to exchange traditional letters as part of the process of exchanging a language. Up until then I hadn’t thought of exchanging letters before. As a historian I do on occasion come across and read old letters for historical research. They are a great resource and are often very touching and beautiful items of history.

Sadly it is a dying art. Using a postal system just isn’t efficient any more, not when there is Email, Texting, Instant Messaging, Phoning etc. Before in the past a letter was the only form of long distance communication – with the invention of the Modern World the old art of letter writing has died because messages can be sent in an instant around the world. Whilst that is a massively brilliant phenomenon it is sad for some of the older traditions.

In the past, there use to be letter writing etiquette books which would give sample letters on how to write on an array of topics…now we have books to decipher text speech.

Sadly, my early pen pals from My Language Exchange were not a success story. I wrote a letter to one and get a reply, but not a reply to my second. The next pen pal I wrote to and never got a reply, which was disappointing – but not to worry. I decided to venture onto other websites and find some alternative penpals.

I can recommend two websites. The first was Maarten’s Snail Mail Pen Pals Online. On this site I emailed quite a few people, but I think a lot of the links contain information that isn’t updated. Sadly I only got one reply, but I have received two letters of my pen pal and we email occasionally too! This site is broken down into different countries so if you are looking for people from a specific country, such as I was, then you can browse the adverts from that country. I quite like that aspect of this site.

The next group is Snail Mail Ideas Find Penpals Group. This is not broken down into people country. What you need to do is to send a request and wait to be accepted. Once accepted you can write an advertisement for yourself.

An advertisement doesn’t need to be complicated. Just introduce yourself, your name, approxiate age or exact age, a little bit about yourself and where you are from. Then you can explain what you are looking for in a pen pal. This can be gender specific, country specific, age specific or maybe particular hobbies you share with your future pen pal. Another possibility to consider is saying that you would like to write but not decorate your letters. In this community in particular people like to make fancy envelopes and letters – whilst some of them can be very lovely, it is a style that is not to everyone’s taste. So if you find that you do not want to do that then it would be a good idea to mention that in your advert. Once you’ve posted it people will comment saying they will like to be your pen pal.

A WORD OF WARNING though. Quite a few people on this site have commented that they write quite a few letters and do not get replies. My advice is that if someone comments to your advert and says they will like to be a pen pal – get them to write first. This means you will weed on the people on there who only want to be your pen pal to get a letter, they themselves have no intention of replying back. It’s an element I have only found on this website and it has not happened to me but it is sad that it is prominent in this community. There also people on this site who are only interested getting a goodie swap such as stationary and stickers and such. My advice is do not agree to exchange goods until you have maintain a considerable time getting to know that the person is genuine. There are people on there who want goodies but have no intention of sending any themselves. Another option is to stress that you would like to spend a day or two Facebook messenger the person to get to know them a bit before you exchange letters. If you reply to someone’s advert I suggest you offer to write the letter first, to let that person with the advert (and probably a newbie) show that you are interested in maintaining a serious pen pal friendship.

If you are interesting in trying out snail mailing, I really recommend you give it a go and I hope my word of warning doesn’t put you off. The first time I received a letter in the post it was a fantastic feeling. I only ever get boring letters from my bank. It is often a big surprise to see a letter or two arrive on your door step and it is really a nice feeling that can make your day as you are not expecting it. It is really a feel good moment that perks up your day. So if you are interested, I do recommend giving it a go!

The only thing you need to work on next is your first letter to your pen pal. As we no longer have books on the modern way to write a letter to a pen pal – my next post in this series will be all about letter writing etiquette for your first letter to your pen pal.


A Beautiful Gift – Van der Spek A5 Writing Case

Before we begin I just want to apologise for the photos. I am not, nor will I ever be a photographer. Just imagine these pictures done properly…one day I may improve!

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On the 7th of December, Philofaxy had an interview with Petra Van der Spek about their company which makes leather organisers similar to Filofax. I have heard of the name since during the planner community in August but did not know which about their products. It was a very interesting read, and led me to read another post about the making of a planner. At the end of the interview Petra announced a competition. I lusted after the beautiful A5 writing case and entered the competition; answering the questions as best as I could. I didn’t for a second think I would actually win the competition.

I got an email from Steve announcing that I had won a prize and to expect an email from Petra the next day. I felt like a kid at Christmas…I kept checking my email, but alas no email. I checked my junk folder on the night and found it. Petra was super lovely and told me she had picked something out and because I was in Europe I’d get it for Christmas day. Petra didn’t tell me what I’d won and I didn’t ask. I thought it would be a wonderful surprise for Christmas.

Well, it didn’t arrive in time for Christmas…or so I thought. Turns out it did and a crafty member of my family had sneaked my parcel and wrapped it up and hidden it under the tree. Although technically a crime, I do forgive them for opening my post.

When I opened it I am in awe. Any of the prizes would have been beautiful, but I actually won the one I lusted after! The beautiful A5 writing pad.The photo did not do it justice on the interview did not do it justice! Sure it looked beautiful…but it’s even more beautiful in real life.

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The colour, I’m not sure what colour it is but it is so rich and beautiful. The leather is soft, smooth and smells like new shoes. The smell is overpowering and feels the room, but in a good way. The quality is divine.

I am a traditional letter writer and I have penpals in the Netherlands and Germany. I had looked for a writing case before but never found one I liked. I thought they were not vintage looking enough and looked quite cheap. Until the article I didn’t know Van der Spek did them. This is absolutely perfect. The writing pad is smooth and thick, substantial enough to take a fountain pen.

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The pocket configuration is a secretial flap on the right, which fits the a5 pad. On the left is pockets. You have three pockets for cards. When I buy stamps for posting to Europe, they come loose so I recently made a stamp holder (tutorial to follow), which fits perfectly into these slots. Above that is two further pockets. I have filled these with two different sized envelopes. Behind that is a send pocket. I have put an outgoing letter in the first one (my penpal is a big Harry Potter fan). Finally there is one more secretarial flap that I have stored a letter I need to reply to in. There is a loop in the centre for a pen. I’m too scared to put a pen in at the moment because knowing my luck it’ll leak all over it. So pens are staying away for the moment.

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The stitching is also so beautiful. I love the little angle and makes it subtle but beautiful touch to the writing pad, it makes a delicate statement.

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The two sides come together and are not secured in anyway, which was oddly what I was looking for before but couldn’t find that style.

I am stunned by how beautiful this is. I am completely in love with it. It was a wonderful gesture from Petra and her family and I cannot begin to thank them enough for it. Thank you so much Van der Spek!

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